Post-divorce guilt

It began as a gray cloud. I wasn't sure what it was but in time I could name it. It took me a year and a half after

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WWID?

When I was a full on, engaged and annoyingly devote Christian, I remember reading the book "In His Steps" and for some time after that adopted the term

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Be okay with being alone

When was the last time you were truly alone with yourself? Do you find yourself needing to be in contact with someone all the time? Are you already

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What’s wrong with me?

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose in life is to give it away.  Pablo Picasso What's YOUR gift? What's your purpose? What do

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Adulting

(Warning: rant ahead...)Adulting. Yes, it's a word. At least it's becoming one much like "googling" or "tweeting". The first time I came across it was when my kid

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You’re just being selfish!

To which I reply, I sure am! To be selfish is to be human. Until one becomes an enlightened Indian guru, Mother Teresa, or Jesus Christ himself, it’s

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Yes, there is someone else

One of the most common comments I get from my Ex is that I broke my marriage vows. You know: I, _______, take thee, _____, to be my

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When enough is enough

When do you leave a marriage? Many would say except for adultery, you cannot divorce and even then consider forgiveness of the "guilty party". I acknowledge that I

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Poke Those Feelings

For much of my adult life I had remained ignorant to what I now realize is that I am an empath. I can feel feelings of those around

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an EPIC life

Hmm, where do I begin? Well, like any beginning it's good to lay down terms and definitions so let's start with finding out what does epic mean. In

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